"We don't have to say or think what we don't wish to. We have a choice in those things, and we have to realize that and practice using that choice."
Rolling Thunder, CHEROKEE
Having choices makes us fully accountable.
No one can make us think anything we don't want to think. No one can determine our behavior and how we act.
It's not what's going on but how we look at what's going on. If someone does something and we get upset, we can change how we look at it any time we want.
We can tell ourselves in the morning that the day is going to be beautiful and that we have expectations that great things will happen. Doing this daily sets our mind to look for the joy and the excitement of each day.